
My UMaine Experience
This is a blog from the viewpoint of a fourth year UMaine student, working at Hannaford, trying to juggle school, work, friends and family.
Monday, April 30, 2012
Live each day as if your life has just begun

It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are
As the semester comes to an end I am forced to face graduation and the fact that the majority of my friends will be leaving me. All through college I have had two or more groups of friends and the majority of those friends are graduating this year, I will honestly have 5 of my close friends left next semester. This is terrifying because now I have to go back to how it was freshman year and try to meet new friends and new people, because if I do not I will definitely be bored or lonely. I am very sad that graduation is just around the corner, but I also am so thankful for the people this school has brought into my life. My best girlfriends are graduating, the person I always went to to vent and cry and complain is leaving, my best friends from high school is graduating, my two girls that over the past year have also become my best friends are graduating, and my boyfriend is graduating.
It is such a big step for them and I am so proud of them that I can not even explain, but I am sad, because I know I will see them maybe a few times a year. I have had amazing times with all of these people and I know I am going to miss them incredibly next year. I also need to keep in mind that these people who mean so much to me will also be facing a lot of changes (changes that are much larger than mine) they have to go out now and create a life for themselves with what they have learned in college. I am so proud to call these people some of my best friends, and I can not wait to see what they become in the future and where we will all be 10 years down the road.

Monday, April 23, 2012
Happiness happens when we learn to expect nothing but appreciate everything
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This is my Grandmother and Grandfather on their wedding day. |
At the burial, when I thought it would be extremely painful and sad, I was surprised as to how much easier it was to deal with the loss. It is amazing how much four months can do in the healing process. In January whenever anyone said Beepa (which is what everyone in my family called my grandfather) or mentioned a memory with him, someone in my family would start crying. As I have mentioned before I have a rather large, close family, so it doesn't take much to get everyone crying when someone else is. Along with crying though, there is laughter, when one person starts laughing, everyone starts laughing, and that is how the burial was surprisingly easy. It isn't hard to think of the times with Beepa that are hilarious and that is what my family focused on during the burial ceremony. The actual ceremony was solemn and touching, but when the minister asked my family to sing a verse of amazing grace, we all couldn't help but chuckle. My family is not musical to say the least and my grandfather always found it amusing when we tried to be musical, so singing at the burial ceremony was a perfect way to lighten the mood.

Monday, April 16, 2012
Life begins at the end of your comfort zone
As the semester begins to come to a close, I keep getting more and more excited for June. In June, not only does my awesome summer job start, my sister graduates from high school, and my family is all on summer vacation, but I am going on a CRUISE! The cruise is 10 days long and we are going from Florida to Mexico and Belize. I have never been out of the country, not even to Canada, and I am extremely excited. My whole family is going, which I talked about in my first blog, so there will be a lot of people on the trip, and I expect it to be the best time ever. It has been one of my dreams to travel the world and starting with a cruise I think may be my most ideal way to start.
My mother and stepdad surprised my siblings and I on christmas day, after they have already gotten us everything we had asked for. We all screamed and were jumping around like those children that you see on TV when their parents tell them they are going to Disney or something. We were all so excited and my younger sister and I still to this day can not stop talking about the cruise and what we are going to do on it. I am a little nervous though because as I have said I have never been out of the country, and I have never been on a cruise. Going to a different country for the first time will be a little strange for me, I am sure, but I am so extremely excited to be out of what is normal for me and forced into a place that I know nothing, or very little about. I can't wait to go and I am sure I will make a million memories with my family that will last forever, but no matter what I am always anxious about the unknown.

Monday, March 26, 2012
Life is too short to wake up with regrets


Monday, March 19, 2012
Because when you stop and look around this life is pretty amazing
As the weather gets warmer I am forced to realize how much I love this place I call home. Living here in Orono/Old Town for the past four years has obviously had its ups and downs. I find as the weather has improved so have the moods of myself and the people I am surrounded by. This weekend has been one of the best weekends of the semester, not only because it was St. Patty's Day weekend, but because everyone I came in contact with had a smile on their face and were generally in a good mood. At Hannaford all of the customers were in a good mood, smiling, and enjoying their day. That right there makes my life at work worlds better.
The weather directly effects my life and the lives of most of the people in Maine, which made me realize that I need to take the time to walk outside and enjoy every minute of everyday. Since the weather has improved my mood has improved, which has made me think I need to find something good in everyday, no matter the weather. I have made a goal for the rest of the semester and the year that I take a minute or so each day and write down a few things that made my day good. This way I am not dwelling on all of the bad moments of the day and even if the weather isn't forcing me to be in a good mood I need to find something in my life to make every day a good day. As of right now my list would include how mice it smells outside, and gentleman at Hannaford who put a smile on my face complimenting me, and the fact that while I am writing this all of the windows in my apartment are open and the breeze is blowing in. I found I need to realize even the smallest things that can make my day that much better.
The weather directly effects my life and the lives of most of the people in Maine, which made me realize that I need to take the time to walk outside and enjoy every minute of everyday. Since the weather has improved my mood has improved, which has made me think I need to find something good in everyday, no matter the weather. I have made a goal for the rest of the semester and the year that I take a minute or so each day and write down a few things that made my day good. This way I am not dwelling on all of the bad moments of the day and even if the weather isn't forcing me to be in a good mood I need to find something in my life to make every day a good day. As of right now my list would include how mice it smells outside, and gentleman at Hannaford who put a smile on my face complimenting me, and the fact that while I am writing this all of the windows in my apartment are open and the breeze is blowing in. I found I need to realize even the smallest things that can make my day that much better.
Monday, February 20, 2012
Live for the moments other people don't notice
As spring break comes closer here at UMaine, and I am stuck up here the whole time working, I start remembering my past spring breaks. Though I have not gone any where tropical or warm I have a had a few good spring breaks. My favorite by far was Freshman year.
My best friend Molly is from Worcester, Mass and she and I were inseparable, so needless to say we spent spring break together. It started with us renting a hotel room in Bangor so we could stay here and watch the UMaine vs. UNH hockey game, which was great. We are huge hockey fans, and watching them beat our rival school was awesome. We then road tripped 5 hours south to Worcester where we stayed for a few days with her family. Her family is amazing and have become a huge part of my life and getting to know them for those few days was so much fun. We met our boyfriends in Boston and ate and shopped for the whole day. The weather was perfect and the atmosphere in Boston is amazing. After we had spent the majority of our money we all went back to Molly's house and had a little barbecue even though there was still snow on the ground.
After a few more days at Molly's house my boyfriend and I drove back to Maine where we stopped for one night at my house in Gorham, and then continued on our way to Camden where my boyfriend lived. Camden is a beautiful town and we just drove around and looked at all of the beautiful houses and beaches. I met my boyfriends family for the first time, and met all of his friends from home. We went to a house party at his friend from high school's house, where I felt out of place, but still had a great time regardless. The following day his parents, who are Greek, made a dinner that I at first was terrified of. The main dish was lamb. I had never eaten lamb and never thought I would, but in fear of being rude I tried it anyway, to my surprise I loved it. It was great eating and laughing with his parents and brother, but sadly after dinner I had to head out on my way back home. I spent the remainder of my spring break with my family, which was relaxing and nice, but I seriously missed my friends.
Spring break always comes at the perfect time, and even though I haven't gone anywhere special I have spent it with some of my favorite people in the world. I have learned that it does not matter where you are it really only matters who you are with. My friends and I can have the best time doing absolutely nothing, which really comes in handy up here in boring old Orono.

After a few more days at Molly's house my boyfriend and I drove back to Maine where we stopped for one night at my house in Gorham, and then continued on our way to Camden where my boyfriend lived. Camden is a beautiful town and we just drove around and looked at all of the beautiful houses and beaches. I met my boyfriends family for the first time, and met all of his friends from home. We went to a house party at his friend from high school's house, where I felt out of place, but still had a great time regardless. The following day his parents, who are Greek, made a dinner that I at first was terrified of. The main dish was lamb. I had never eaten lamb and never thought I would, but in fear of being rude I tried it anyway, to my surprise I loved it. It was great eating and laughing with his parents and brother, but sadly after dinner I had to head out on my way back home. I spent the remainder of my spring break with my family, which was relaxing and nice, but I seriously missed my friends.
Spring break always comes at the perfect time, and even though I haven't gone anywhere special I have spent it with some of my favorite people in the world. I have learned that it does not matter where you are it really only matters who you are with. My friends and I can have the best time doing absolutely nothing, which really comes in handy up here in boring old Orono.
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